We hear from overwhelmed couples all the time. Weddings are enormous events with a whole lot of moving parts. They have a tendency to drive even the toughest duos just a little nuts. It’s completely normal to feel lost or confused, but suffering unnecessary. Take things step by step and it will all be okay! Step 1: Wedding Planning Timeline.
The list below isn’t exhaustive – it’s an outline to help you accomplish your major tasks in reasonable time. The dates are just ballparks – if your wedding is in a particularly popular region, or at a peak time of year, you may need more lead-time. If you’re hosting a last-minute affair, you’ll definitely have to compress things a lot. Use this timeline to keep you on track, and take a deep breath. Your wedding planning is just the first part of your lifetime journey.
General Timeline for Planning Your Wedding
- Discuss your priorities as a couple. Involve family members if they are contributing funds.
- Set a budget.
- Hire a wedding planner.
- Choose a date. Find a ceremony venue and a reception venue.
- Negotiate room blocks for out of town guest accommodations.
- Book your major vendors: caterer, live musicians, DJ, rental company for major equipment and tents, florist, videographer, photographer.
- Determine your “look” or wedding style.
- Choose and order your wedding gown or custom wedding suit.
- Start a wedding website to help keep guests informed about the major details they need for their own planning purposes.
- Start looking for wedding rings.
- Meet with your venue manager, DJ, photographer, videographer, and florist to hash out timeline details and discuss ideas; secure quotes if needed.
- Shop for any custom attendant attire.
- Order invitations and assemble addresses for all invitees.
- Plan and reserve your honeymoon!
- Shop for mothers’ dresses and children’s attire.
- Attend any required pre-requisite counseling sessions or classes to fulfill church requirements, if applicable.
- Consult with your officiant and hash out your ceremony details.
- Register for wedding gifts.
- Finalize orders, review contracts, and communicate any final changes clearly to vendors.
- Reserve and confirm attire rentals.
- Buy accessories for yourself and wedding party.
- Schedule and complete final alterations.
- Send invitations (one rule of thumb is approximately 6 weeks out for local weddings – more if most or all guests must travel to the wedding from out of town).
- Secure your marriage license (check your local requirements to fine-tune your timing and be sure you have the documents you need).
- Communicate important details to your wedding party members.
- Attend showers and write thank you notes for every gift received (start early – don’t let them pile up).
- Have any new final facial treatments and get a haircut – give yourself enough time for adverse affects to wear off or “mistakes” to grow out!
- Collect RSVPs and follow up on any non-responses.
- Report final guest count to your caterer.
- Create seating chart.
- Finalize rentals, flowers, music, and details with your wedding day coordinator.
- Make sure all final payments are under control.
- Pack everything needed for your ceremony and reception – label containers well so set up is foolproof.
- Pack for your honeymoon. Don’t forget your passport and travel insurance documents if needed.
- Pick up and try on rental attire.
- Attend your rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.
- Have a spa treatment, mani, pedi – whatever you need to feel amazing and relax.
- Trust your professionals. If you’ve done your part so far, you’ve earned the right to let go and enjoy.
- Get some sleep!
The Wedding Day – Enjoy the Magical Day of Your Dreams!
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